With the advent of the web we have sex at our fingertips. But mostly that’s where it stays. More and more people are hooked on the adrenalin and dopamine rush of porn. Collectively pornography is one of the most lucrative businesses in the world.  The reason that porn is so successful is that it’s literally addictive. But for most people ejaculation after the intense rush of porn leaves people still dissatisfied. It’s like and itch that just can’t be scratched. The itch is intimacy, connection and dare I say it to love and be loved in return.  Love can be given freely and generously even in a brief encounter. It is the more expansive love I am speaking of – not just romantic love.

Tantric Massage is a safe, sensual and damn sexy experience to reawaken kindness and loving touch.  Why does kindness get such a bad rap? Just holding someone’s hand is a great act of kindness – of course metaphorically as well as physically. When we hold hands a small amount of serotonin and oxytocin are released in the brain (the happy and love hormones respectively). Connection makes human beings feel good. It’s that simple. It’s not speculative … it’s scientific fact. The first thing a baby does is reach for the hand and grip.

 I guess what I am advocating here is that foreplay and kindness need a sexy comeback. Intercourse or fucking has become such a stress release for the top and the bottom that both parties hurry to fuck that the kindness (which is actually more stress relieving) is forgotten. When the fervent frenzy of fucking is over it’s usually a dash to the shower – a high-speed disconnection.

During a two-hour tantric massage the actual benefits of releasing slow sustained sex chemicals into the body is directly felt and experienced. So what of you sex fiends that say, ‘but I don’t want to give up my acrobatic fuck.’  Well, here’s the good news – tantric sex and tantric massage (old fashioned loving touch and foreplay) will enhance your fuck and orgasm beyond anything you can experience with fast sex.  And YES … even with strangers.  Try it out! See how more wild and responsive your partner becomes if you are present with him, take your time, put him first for at least half the time. It will be sexually enlightening. Clue: remember how it used to feel when you fist started discovering your sexual energy and your sexual body. The feelings you had when you first glided next to another aroused naked body. You can get those tingling electric sensations back.

Be kind – it’s really sexy.

I will end this blog the same way that I will end every blog by letting you know that your direct experience of tantric massage will surpass any description that mere words can evoke. However, I will try and keep you informed and curious so that you will trust yourself enough to make a booking with me.