Thanks to ‘Sex and the City’ the word Tantra is out in the mainstream and has a relatively positive connotation. Miranda might not agree with you as she sits unamused with some gushing of ‘old faithful’ on her face. But on the whole – Tantra and the Kama Sutra are becoming more and more practiced in the West.
Many of my clients are of course curious about the sexual aspect of Tantra and that is discussed and explored in-depth and in all my sessions. Although there is so much more to Tantra – it is a way of life. I work only Man-to-Man and explore what it means to be fully aware of the heart and sexual energy. We use the breath and long exhalations through the mouth and we keep the throat open.
My particular style of tantric massage can melt many a frozen or broken heart. It can resuscitate a bruised or lonely heart. It can put fire in your loins and a great big smile on your face. Tantric Massage should focus on the awakening of the primal life force … in Hinduism it is called ‘PRANA’. Which is the breath of life, a life-giving force. Prana is seen as a universal energy, which flows in currents in and around the body.
I only work with Male-to-Male Tantric massage because this is what I know. I do have many heterosexual and bi-sexual men come and try the massage, they are more ‘curious’ and come to explore their sexuality in a highly confidential and safe space. But for the most part I work with other gay men.
My aim is for each client to remember that the primal body knows how to make love. Sexual energy is Yogic by nature – often during the massage you will be amazed at what your spine and hips are capable of. If followed, and not driven, sexual energy can open the powerful and natural primal medicine cabinet that is inside every one of us. There is a great chemistry that floods the body with sexual tantric massage.
I will end this blog the same way that I will end every blog by letting you know that your direct experience of tantric massage will surpass any description that mere words can evoke. However, I will try and keep you informed and curious so that you will trust yourself enough to make a booking with me.