Gay Tantric Massage is becoming more and more popular. I am often asked to teach my work and I’m gearing up to that. It’s my vision to have a gay tantric massage retreat somewhere exotic to enhance the erotic. Somewhere safe to explore our sensuality in strength and vulnerability. I offer the best gay massage Byron Bay and I also travel offering the best gay massage Sydney and the best gay massage Melbourne.

There are many reasons I believe that Gay Tantric Massage is gaining accelerated interested but the main one is timing. Gay men in the Western world have never had it so good. Sure there’s still a long way to go with equal rights and the public’s general perceptions but nevertheless, we live in relatively unprecedented historic times for gay men and women.

So we’ve been let out of the darkness and into the light. Into the light of the candy store that is … and a lot of men are still stuck there gorging on anything they can get their hands on. And why not? It’s fun and exciting and addictive. But the rush and the thrill will dwindle. It’s the nature of this human body. And that’s what is happening – gay men are leaving the candy store and re-joining the rest of society in the outside world. But something has to replace that rush … that intensity of feeling. And that something can only be true human feeling connection. It’s a wild connection and exhilarating if explored deeply and sweetly.

Gay tantric massage and Tantra in general, is a great gay portal into the world of connection. Into the innocence and power of the intrinsic healing nature of sexual touch. It’s what we are all longing for … to feel safe, not so alone and connected to another dependable human being.  It doesn’t mean that we have to give up that testosterone fuelled desire to fuck and have wild sex (especially if you are younger) in fact it can mean we can do that with more passion, feeling and excitement.

One of the biggest surprises for me is discovering that couples rarely have eye contact. Think about it … people in relationships and busy in some harmonious flow and co-existence and they never really look at each other. Most just don’t know how … Ask yourself how much eye contact do you make with your fellow man? How aware or comfortable are you with eye contact? It’s not so easy. In my Gay Tantric massage work in the longer sessions we explore this phenomenon.

Eye contact usually is the first strong activity in the art of flirting and seduction. We give so many signals this way – overt and covert. Bringing a little awareness to this powerful communication tool can change the way you find a mate and mate a mate 😉

I will end this blog the same way that I will end every blog by letting you know that your direct experience of tantric massage will surpass any description that mere words can evoke. However, I will try and keep you informed and curious so that you will trust yourself enough to make a booking with me.

Looking forward to getting my hands on you very soon.